GAYMATE – the community app for gay, bi and queer men

Connect. Share. Explore.

The community app for gay, bi and queer men.

18+ only

What GAYMATE is

GAYMATE is the community for gay, bi and queer men aged 18+. For real connections, creativity and respectful encounters. You decide what you share – and with whom.

Three things that matter

Your community.
Your people.

  1. Connect

    Follow, match, chat. A footprint lets you say a quick “hello” or invite someone for coffee – and in Shuffle chat you meet someone completely at random.

  2. Share

    Photos, stories and highlights, with a built-in editor for text, stickers and filters. You choose who sees them: everyone, followers, close friends – or just you.

  3. Explore

    Discover people by interests, city and profile details. You only see distances if you both share them – roughly rounded.

The app

This is how GAYMATE feels.

  1. Your feed

    Photos and stories from people you follow – and new faces under “For you”. Like, comment, save.

  2. Discover

    Find people by interests, city and profile details. Or shake your phone and shuffle the grid.

  3. Match

    Swipe through profiles that suit you. LIKE or SKIP – and if you both like each other, it’s a match.

  4. Chats

    Message your matches. Strangers land in your requests – you decide who stays. Photos in chats only arrive after they have been checked.

  5. Privacy

    Age, city, online status, distance: everything is off until you switch it on. Plus an app lock with fingerprint or PIN.

App screens shown in German – the app launches in German first.

The special moment

It’s a Match

When you both like each other, it happens. And if someone really catches your eye: shake your phone and send a WANT U KISS.

Safety & privacy

Trust is
not an extra.

Reporting, blocking and your privacy are always free. GAYMATE is for adults aged 18+ only.

  • Every photo is checked

    Before a photo becomes visible to others, it gets checked. Nudity and explicit content have no place on GAYMATE.

  • Private by default

    Your profile starts private. Age, city, online status and distance are only shown if you switch them on yourself.

  • You decide who messages you

    New contacts land in your requests – at most three messages until you accept. You can also turn requests off completely.

  • Report and block

    Profiles, photos, stories, comments and messages can be reported at any time. Blocking works instantly and in both directions.

  • Distance only roughly

    Only if you both share it, and always rounded. We never store your exact location.

  • App lock

    Fingerprint or PIN, no preview in the app switcher and, if you like, an inconspicuous app icon.

  • Discreet notifications

    Push notifications can show neither names nor content. Nobody at the next table reads along.

  • Your data belongs to you

    Stored in Frankfurt am Main, Germany. No selling of data. Export and account deletion right in the app.

Coming soon

Coming to Google Play.

GAYMATE launches on Android first. 18+ only.